“Reach for the stars!”

That is what I tell my kids, as often as I can. I want them to set high goals. I don’t want them to settle for less, in fear of the unknown. I want them to take that leap.

I’m concerned about my oldest son. He is very analytical, a trait passed on to him by me.

Not sure if you would call that trait a blessing or a curse.

“Calmate, analiza, y despues, toma accion!”

my dad’s words to me, in spanish (more meaningful to me, somehow) when I was growing up.  Translation: “Calm down, analyze, and then take action!”

Yes! Even as a child, I had anger management problems!

I try to follow his advice, but I think I take it to the extreme. I am too analytical according to my loved ones.

I make lists, go over the pros and cons and talk to my friends about all the “what if’s”.

I have settled in the past, in fear of the unknown.

I am now trying to change, but it is very hard.

I fear that for my oldest son.

I want my son to live life and take chances, but at the same time to give some thought to his actions.

I want somewhat of a balance.

I anticipate great things for him and my other two boys.

I want them to take a deep breath, spread their wings, and fly!

I want my babies to reach the stars!